Denton, Texas & beyond

The meal ends. The feeling stays.

Mary Higby takes care of the food, the details, and the pressure, so you can be present for the people and moments that matter most.

Best of Denton Nominee

Culinary educator · Caterer · Hospitality professional · Business owner · Mother of two

Mary Higby in her signature pink Wildflour chef coat

Food is my love language.

Mary Higby

Food with heart. Details with purpose.

Made with heart

Planned with purpose

Real life welcome

Remembered long after

Two ways Mary can lighten the load

What would feel like relief right now?

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For the moment you’re planning

I want to enjoy my own celebration.

Catering, bartending, and event planning designed around your people without making you carry every detail.

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For the life you’re living

I’m tired of starting dinner from zero.

A dependable plan, growing confidence, and an experienced culinary educator guiding you in your real kitchen.

Discover The Wildflour Table™
Mary Higby teaching an interactive cooking class in her branded pink Wildflour chef coat
350 guests

Fed through a power failure.

That is Mary: calm when the room gets complicated.

Meet the woman behind Wildflour

She can feed 350 people through a power failure. But her real gift is making one person believe, “I can do this.”

I did not inherit a recipe box. I built one. It grew from burned macaroni, West Texas grit, New Orleans tradition, restaurant kitchens, classrooms, celebrations, and one brave attempt at a time.

No one taught me how to cook. I was seven years old the first time I burned myself making macaroni and cheese, and I learned early that confidence is not something you wait to feel. It is something you build every time you try.

I turned that lesson into a life as a culinary educator, caterer, hospitality professional, restaurant manager, business owner, and teacher. I know how to command the details of a major event. I also know how to stand beside someone who is certain they cannot cook until their whole expression changes: “I made that.”

No one taught me how to cook. I built my life around making sure other people never have to learn alone.
How burned macaroni became Wildflour

Food became even more personal when cancer took both of my parents. My mother was my best friend, my person. I responded to some of that grief by writing a book about healthy foods and the ways we can care for our bodies through what we eat.

Food became more than my profession. It became a way to fight back, a way to comfort, and a way to keep caring for people when I could not fix what was hurting them.

Today, I am a single mother raising two adventurous boys, Lennon and Harrison. I work two jobs, teach, coach baseball, plan family adventures, and occasionally agree to projects that require power tools and more confidence than experience.

I understand the pressure of planning the meal, buying the groceries, working around everyone’s schedules, making something they will actually eat, and trying to be present when you are already exhausted. I am not teaching from an imaginary spotless kitchen. I am living real family life right alongside you.

That is the heart behind both Wildflour Catering & Events™ and The Wildflour Table™. Feeding people is how I say, “I see you. I care about you. You belong here.”

Mary teaching a relaxed live Wildflour Table cooking class in a berry blouse and apron with the stacked Wildflour Table flower and bee logo
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Made for busy moms + real schedules

The Wildflour Table™ · Live cooking classes

Dinner built for the life you actually have.

At 5:37, you do not need another recipe. You need a plan and Mary right there cooking beside you.

Most meal plans are built for families who are home at dinnertime. Yours may not be. Mary helps busy moms stop starting dinner from zero. Together, you make meals that can work around baseball, theater, late practices, different eating times, and the nights when everyone needs something from you.

Before Your recipe, shopping list, and prep plan
Together Live instruction, questions, and help when you need it
After Replay access, growing confidence, and your cookbook
Real kitchens welcome Children and interruptions allowed No perfection required
Pull up a chair

I can’t cook.

Look what I made.

What’s for dinner?

I already have a plan.

Just another weeknight.

A moment they’ll remember.

Real kitchens are welcome here.

Catering services

One celebration. Every detail cared for.

Choose exactly what you need, or bring the pieces together for a seamless Wildflour experience.

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Food with heart

Catering

Food built around your people, your celebration, and the way you want the room to feel.

Custom menus · Weddings · Private parties · Community events

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Raise a glass

Bartending

Warm, polished bar service that keeps guests cared for and the celebration flowing.

Professional service · Custom drink menus · Guest experience

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Details made effortless

Event Planning

All the moving pieces brought together into one personal, memorable experience.

Planning · Coordination · Thoughtful finishing touches

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A taste of Wildflour

Colorful food. Full glasses. People who get to enjoy the moment.

Every menu, pour, table, and finishing touch is there for one reason: to make the people in the room feel cared for.

The Wildflour way

Warm enough to feel like home. Elevated enough to feel special.

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People first

Your meal is never just a transaction. It is a room full of people you care about and a moment you cannot repeat.

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Calm in the chaos

Real kitchens, changed plans, missing ingredients, and power failures do not scare Mary. She knows how to keep moving.

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Confidence over perfection

You do not have to perform or pretend here. Every brave attempt is one more reason to believe, “I can do this.”

What people remember

The food matters. So does getting to enjoy your own moment.

Mary served as the day of coordinator for my wedding. It’s fair to say it would’ve been a “hot mess” without her. She ensured the caterers got going fast, decorated the tables, organized and put away our cards and gifts, worked with the pianist on timing, lined up the bridal party and sent them in, gathered family members for photos, distributed the petals, helped box up the leftovers, and a lot of other things that honestly saved the day. She is amazing! Would highly recommend!

Sarah

My event was flawless, and I was able to enjoy my wedding without any stress.

Elizabeth, bride

Mary is great to work with and super flexible. The food was amazing! If you really want some good bacon, this is where you get it. 😊

Shannon

Mary helped me create and execute a menu that was beyond my expectations! We didn’t just use her for catering, but bartending, serving, and clean up. Her and her staff were so friendly and accommodating, making sure my wedding was a huge hit! I would recommend over and over again!

Celia

Every day is a holiday.

Every night is a celebration. Not because every day is easy. This life is happening now, and the people we love are worth pulling up a chair for.

Let’s start with what you need

Tell Mary what would make life feel lighter.

Planning a wedding, family milestone, community event, company gathering, or looking for a better answer to “What’s for dinner?” Start the conversation here.

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Bring a little Wildflour home.

Thoughtful kitchen pieces, clothing, gifts, and everyday reminders that food is about more than the meal.

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